I’m a professional musician, amateur athlete, and enthusiastic game player looking for a long-term (maybe lifelong?) partner for board games, sports, delicious food, world travel, and uninhibited sex. A good egg, looking for the real deal.

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Age: 34
Height: 6′
Location: San Diego
Job: Musician (UU church music director)

5 Words that best describe you:

Athletic, charismatic, introverted, musical, sensitive.

What are you passionate about?

Not having children – vasectomy scheduled for August, 2022.

What is something you could teach your partner?

How to play disc golf! (And why it’s worth trying a few times.)

What characteristics are most important when choosing a partner?

Chemistry; enthusiasm for making plans together; sexual compatibility.

What is your love language?

Physical touch/acts of service.

The way to win you over is…

to DJ while I drive.

Ideal first date:

Padres game!

Unpopular opinion that you’re sticking to…

Star Wars Eps. 1-3 were enjoyable movies.

When were you the most proud of yourself?

I am the most proud of myself when I act as an ally to oppressed people and groups: calling out sexism or racism, using my body to shield someone else’s from harm, etc.

Describe your perfect Saturday

Wake up early-ish for a hike or walk with the dog(s), make breakfast at home (I’m a great barista), a leisurely afternoon, followed by game night with friends.

Top 3 dream travel destinations

Scotland/Ireland; Japan; Brazil.

If you won a million dollars today, what would you spend it on?

I’d invest it so that my partner and I could retire early and travel full time.

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