Not the best writer but here it goes. My name is Michael and I’m originally from New York. Been living in San Diego for a few years now. Always looking to grow mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. Some of my best memories are of close friends either having deep conversations or doing something adventurous like climbing through a tight valley.

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I’m looking for someone to create a life with. Where I have my life, they have theirs and we have ours. Where we create emotional intimacy and care with one another. We can have hard conversations and support each other. Someone I can laugh with and conquer the world with, or at least conquer a basket of truffle fries.

Age: 35
Height: 5’8″
Location: Oceanside, CA, 92058
Job: Business consultant

5 Words that best describe you:

Active, patient, empathetic, playful, primal

What are you passionate about?

Figuring out how to get groups of people to create positive impact. Growth, depth, and play.

How would your best friends describe you?

Always learning, kind and empathetic. Also a sarcastic pain in the butt at times ??‍♂️

What is something you could teach your partner?

Acro yoga

What characteristics are most important when choosing a partner?

Someone who is kind, curious, in touch with her emotions, resilient, feminine, playful, and purposeful

What is your love language?

Physical touch and quality time

The way to win you over is…

Show me that you deeply understand or are curious about what you care about, asking amazing questions, pointing out my B.S. or a massage.

Ideal first date:

Walk around a busy/fun area and having silly/meaningful conversations.

Unpopular opinion that you’re sticking to…

Pineapple belongs on pizza

Favorite local hidden gem/favorite place

Saigon Trail

When were you the most proud of yourself?

1. Getting my masters degree.
2. Making money for my art.

Show or movie you won’t shut up about


Describe your perfect Saturday

Doing a hard trail and getting food afterwards. Lounging / playing at a park. Going out to dinner and having meaningful conversations with good friends.

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