I am a social introvert (INFJ) who needs good conversation and a deep monogamous bond. I still love to travel, be spontaneous, go to the gym or yoga, cook, etc but I love art and books. I am looking for someone honest and relaxed, but ambitious and curious like I am, so we can support each other and make each other’s lives easier and more fun.

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I’m tired of the casual bumble thing where half the people are lying shamelessly about who they are and what they want. I’m looking for someone who thinks deeply but still has fun. My usual “type” is guys in science or engineering. I’m impressed when they know how to do things I can’t, but still are interested in my hobbies.

Age: 28
Sign: Libra (I dont believe in astrology)
Height: 5’6
Location: San Diego CA 92107
Job: Marketing Editor

5 Words that best describe you:

Thoughtful, curious, poetic, active, independent

What are you passionate about?

Literature, nature, justice (sometimes politics)

What is something you could teach your partner?

How to enjoy poetry, concerts, hikes, if they don’t already

How would your best friends describe you?

Gift giver, tour guide, brunch planner

What characteristics are most important when choosing a partner?

Loyalty and dedication, once you figure out if youre a good match on the main dealbreakers. Those classic elements that modern dating is missing.

The way to win you over is…

Genuine interest and effort. Trust that I’ll give you back more than what you give me. It’s really that simple.

Ideal first date:

I’m not picky, a bar is fine.

Favorite local hidden gem/favorite place

I have a few I’d love to show someone.

When were you the most proud of yourself?

When the war broke out and I saw how brave Ukrainians are. Not really myself but them.

If you won a million dollars today, what would you spend it on?

I’d remodel my parents house and save the rest for future vacations.

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