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How It Works
back by popular demand.
est 2020
Look hotter on paper.
(Get matched faster — and hotter.)
Your digital playground.
(Where sparks actually fly, not die.)
Get the inside scoop on events, matches, and Jill Meet Jack Takeovers.
We throw parties where you’re the main character, not background noise.
Your Lookbook, vibe playlists, and content — all in one sexy place.
Get invited to secret field trips, pop-up parties, and brand events.
Sexy, right?!
Now let's get you matched + paid to party!
we've combined everything we hated about dating and did the exact opposite.
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✔️ Access to the hot, fun group chat
✔️ Access to events and RSVP priority
✔️Member perks and insider pricing
✔️ Exclusive Event Access
✔️ Unlimited Access to View Lookbook
✔️ Priority RSVPs (skip the waitlists)
✔️ Insider Pricing on Premium Events
✔️ Elite Networking with Driven Creators
✔️ Luxury Perks from Top Local Brands
VIP Access Groups:
✔️Sexy AIM Chat
✔️ VIP Lookbook
✔️ Private Yacht Party + Global Retreats
✔️ Spark Missions
✔️ Blind Items + Flirt Lounge
✔️ Event RSVP/Invites
✔️ Everything VIP
For the effortlessly social who want exclusive access without the hassle.
Designed for connectors and go-getters. If you want exclusive doors opened, this is your pass.
For those who want to find their match, yesterday.
Membership is reviewed on a case-by-case basis to maintain the highest level of exclusivity and quality connections.
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✔️ Pro Lookbook Listing Featured
✔️ 1:1 Clarity Call With The Team
✔️ Spotify Playlist + Tip Jar
✔️ Access to Video Bios + Privacy Features
✔️ Lifetime Access to Lookbook + Events
✔️ First in Line for Matchmaking & Private Invites
✔️ Priority Feature in Member Promotions
✔️ Private feature launch promo
(social media, newsletter, VIP circles)
only 10 spots left!
✨ What exactly is the Spark Society?
It’s a high-vibe community and creative support system for Jills and Jacks who want to get seen, supported, and paid — without burning out or doing it alone.
You’ll get events, templates, referrals, coworking invites, and access to my brain (and magic) on how to grow your brand and build your dream life.
✨ What do I get in the $100/month Spark Society membership?
You get:
• Group chat + voice note support
• Weekly prompts & creative business inspo
• Access to coworking Spark Days @ Kiln (Our beautiful home in San Diego!)
• Spark Vault: templates, challenges, and clarity
• Priority invites to Spark IRL events
• $100 for every friend you refer — no cap
• A whole vibe shift 👏
✨ What’s the LookBook and how do I get in it?
The LookBook is our curated member directory — part portfolio, part dating profile, part media kit.
It’s how you get featured, matched, referred, or discovered by brands, clients, and collaborators.
To be listed, just upgrade to the $200/month Spark + LookBook plan and we’ll build it for you.
✨ Can I join if I'm married or just want to make friends?
Absolutely!
While Jill Meet Jack was born from the idea of real dating experiences, at its heart it’s about authentic connection — whether that's friendship, collaboration, community, or love.
We welcome married members, creators, business owners, and adventure-seekers who simply want to expand their circle, attend amazing events, and be part of something bigger.
This is your place to show up, shine, and find your people — whatever "connection" means to you.
this is a safe judgement-free zone for you to tell the world who you are and what you're looking for!
✨ Who is this community for?
Creative entrepreneurs, small business owners, designers, writers, photographers, matchmakers, content creators, and people who want to make money and meaning while living a soft, sexy, well-supported life.
✨ Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. (But, like why..?) haha, jk. No drama, no contracts.
Just give us notice before your next billing cycle.
You’ll get instant access to the community. You'll also be guided to complete your VIP LookBook profile (Pro!), RSVP to events, and jump into the Flirt Lounge!
✨ How do I apply for matchmaking?
If you're Inner Circle or VIP Spotlight, you’ll get direct access to apply for our priority matchmaking services.
We believe in chemistry — not algorithms.
A real team. Real curation. Real connections.
✨ Refunds?
Due to the digital nature and exclusive access provided immediately upon signup, all sales are final.
We’re confident you’re going to LOVE it — but if you have any questions, our team is here to help you find your best fit.
✨ Is this a dating app?
No way. This is real life — way better than swiping. It's for making real connections through curated events, lounges, and experiences.
✨ Can I refer people and get paid?
YES. For every Jill or Jack you refer who joins, you get $100 cash.
No weird hoops. Just your custom link, good vibes, and a growing movement.
✨ Are you hiring?!
We're not "hiring" in the traditional sense — we're inviting.
We believe in attracting the right energy, the right talent, and the right dreamers at the right time.
If you’re a creative, a connector, a community-builder, or someone who just gets it,
we want to hear from you.
This is just the beginning — and we are growing fast.
✨ is this just in san diego?
Nope!
While we’re building IRL magic in San Diego first, many of our roles will be virtual and nationwide (and eventually worldwide).
If you have the spirit of Jill Meet Jack, you’re already close to home.
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